Minority - the smaller part or number; a number, part, or amount forming less than half of the whole.
Based on the Random House Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2010.

Are Asians more than 50% of the population??? Because if they are, then it’s just statistically likely that ANYONE’S next girlfriend will be Asian. So, either Asians ARE a minority, or the SAD thing loses all its meaning. Either way, you’re full of shit.

http://blogan.net/blog/wp-content/2006/10/korea2.jpg

it’s a satellite image of the Korean peninsula at night. Look at how lit up South Korea is… especially near Seoul. But North Korea is basically a black hole. Right at the 38th parallel, it’s like the line where life stops and death begins.

I learned a lot of this by watching the news. But, if we ever start dating, remind me not to indulge in any kind of interesting conversation on the subject… I’ll have to remember to pretend like I don’t even know where to find Korea on a map. Otherwise… you might think I’m one of those creepy Asian Daters…

That aside…

I wanted to ask. In this blog, you reference “Caucasian chefs who recognize the fact that Asians are not a “minority.”” Or, you could also say, “Caucasian chefs who consciously got a job in an Asian kitchen because they’re SAD’s and they wanna hit on the waitresses.” I mean, just saying.

It seems like you take a lot of pride in your culture. So why then, would you want to date a guy who knows NOTHING about it? …and moreover, isn’t really attracted to Asian women? Sounds like a pretty shitty life to me.

I mean, some guys can hide it more than others, but if you’re an Asian girl dating a white guy, you’re dating a guy who likes Asian girls. 2 + 2 = 4.

I just think it’s selfish that you can take so much pride in your culture and talk about what it’s like being an “Asian Princess” or whatever, but if I know how to say “Anyonghaseyo,” that makes me a creep.

Finally, I want to address this bullshit about how we prefer Asian over White because we prefer Subservient over Bitchy. So, we can’t prefer a certain type of girl because of how they look, and we can’t prefer a certain type of girl because of how they act. So, in essence, what you’re suggesting is that we should just date the first available thing we can grab with 2 legs, and if we’re at all selective about it, that makes us narrow-minded creeps. That doesn’t make sense. Let me ask you, how many times have you turned a guy down because you don’t like how he looks or because you don’t like his character? Just the fact that you can sit here and basically spell out your distaste for Asian Daters proves that when it comes to preferences in attitude and appearance (since you don’t like guys with silk robes), you’re just as superficial as the rest of us. If you disagree, then here’s a little experiment for you: Go to a hospital. Go to the burn ward and find a guy with Down’s Syndrome who has no arms, burns on 98% of his body and some kind of major facial disfigurement. Date him with a smile on your face for at least 6 months and make sure you consummate the relationship. Then come back and talk to me about how creepy or evil it is to have a preference in looks and personality when selecting a mate.
Personally, I would much rather date a nice, conservative church girl who minds her P’s and Q’s than a club rat with a bad attitude and a big mouth. God knows, my life is complicated and clusterfucked enough without having to share it with some over-made-up bimbo to add a bunch of bitchiness and drama into it. The truth of the matter is that typically, yes, Asian women tend to be more conservative. I don’t prefer that attitude because I don’t know how to HANDLE a white woman, I prefer it because I find it extremely unattractive when a girl is being a loud-mouth know-it-all who doesn’t know how to carry herself in a social setting. Girl A… Girl B… I prefer Girl B. Why should I settle for Girl A? Why is that fair for me OR Girl A? Moreover, why is it fair for me that Girl B is harder to get now, because she read some half-witted blog written by some dim-wit who doesn’t know me OR Girl B, but is gonna generalize the situation because I’m white and I’ve dated more than 5 Asian girls?
True, Asian women are typically more conservative than white women. But, in all actuality, an Asian-American born in the USA is going to have a comparable attitude as any average American girl. So, once you’re Americanized, white, black, brown, Asian, green or purple, you’re Americanized. However, when you compare an Asian-American to a White American with the same attitude, I’ll almost always take the Asian girl because she’s MORE ATTRACTIVE!!!
Look, I know what it’s like to be objectified. I’ve dated girls from other countries on J-1 visas who, after knowing them for a week, they wanna marry me. Do they really love me enough to marry me? I don’t think so. I’m sure they’re just looking for an anchor (or in your case, my “wontons”). So, we can sit here all day and talk about how horrible white guys and black guys are because they want to date girls they find attractive, but we could also spin this back on the (hell of a lot more) Asian women around the world who would risk life and limb to marry the first willing guy they can find with a Social Security Card.
I’ve dated a few dozen Asian girls in my day, and I find that 95% of the time, Asian girls who have this stupid mindset you’re describing are Asian-American. In Japan, an Asian girl looks at a white guy as rock-star eye candy. In America, we’re creeps just because we find them attractive. It’s amazing… I’m not sure what it is about this country, but there is something in our water or air or food that turns people into total assholes when they move here. I’ve dated girls who are FOB from Korea, China, Thailand, etc., and they’re the sweetest girls I’ve ever met. But, as far as the born-and-raised yankee, Asian or white, a stuck-up American with a shitty attitude is a stuck-up American with a shitty attitude, bar none. By writing this blog and walking around with this dumb-ass, cenacle attitude, you’re putting yourself in no better of a category than the rest of the close-minded, ill-progressive nitwits who work so diligently at keeping our culture a laughing stock for the rest of the world!

I mean, I think Asian women are typically more attractive than any other. Since I’m human, is it not natural for me to try for women who I find more attractive? On the other token, is there any Asian girl out there who wants to date a white guy who doesn’t find Asian women attractive? I mean, far be it for me to assume what women think, but if I was a woman, I sure would hope that my boyfriend finds me attractive!

You mean because Daniel Henney is “white enough to worship, but Asian enough to identify with”? =P

Asian chicks (and guys) fetishizing hapas is a whole other can of worms….